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Get Your Ex to Come Crawling Back

Tuesday, March 24th, 2009


Could this ever really happen? It is not only possible but probable. When properly executed no ex can resist the mental judo techniques revealed. Are you sick of being the only one fighting for your relationship? You can stop the pain and get your ex to come crawling back.

Right now you are probably thinking, yeah right, they won’t even give me the time of day. I appreciate how you feel. Understand thousands of others have felt exactly the same way. However, when they found the system I am speaking of, they couldn’t believe their eyes. They were moving on with their relationships, quickly. Using specialized techniques, you can get your ex to come crawling back

It’s not too late, yet.

Even if they are with someone else, this can be used to your advantage. After all, you want to win the war. It is OK to take a hit on a small battle. Rebound relationships just do not work out. Just continue on with your battle plan, and trust you will prove the rule.

Do not panic.

Begging, pleading, and attempted jealousy will only drive your ex farther away. Have you wondered why rubys and emeralds are so expensive? They are perceived to be rare and hard to come by. But you can gather for free all the rocks you want on the side of the road. if you leave messages and text them multiple times a day, they know they can have you back. This will drive you further apart.

They are thinking of you.

Humans have selective memories. If you remove what you are doing to upset your ex (stalking or threatening), the human mind will eliminate the bad memories and only live the good ones. Prove me right. Think about a friend you had a fight with a couple of years ago. The first things that come to mind are the fun you had together, not the fight. If you TRY you can only remember bits and pieces of the rift you had.

People’s biggest fear

People despise being inconsistent. People do whatever they have done in the past to be consistent. That is why alcoholics are never cured. They see themselves as problem drinkers, and they are. This is the definition of a self fulfilling prophesy.

The primary reason your ex called it quits is because they either saw you as inconsistent, or saw themselves as inconsistent being with you. If you dig deep enough one of the two will emerge. All you have to do is show them it would be inconsistent to not be with you. This is both effective and slightly manipulative. Don’t worry, they will never know.

Here is the proof.

This story is paraphrased from Robert Chaldini’s book - Persuasion, The Art of Influence.

People went into a suburban neighborhood and asked 100 homeowners if they could put a large gaudy billboard in their yard that said “Keep California Beautiful”?. 97 said no. They then asked 100 different homeowners if they would put a small sticker on their garage window that said “Keep California beautiful”?. It was such a small request 97 said yes. Two weeks later the same 97 people who said yes to the small sticker were asked if they would allow them to put up the same unsightly gaudy billboard in their yard. Over 2 thirds said yes. It was consistent with what they had done in the past.



Tuesday, January 13th, 2009


The road to romance is not as hard as you think; with the right direction, you will be in a position to reach the place you want. Romance in general is finding someone you can call your own. Many take time to find that special person while others seem to have it easy. Romance in the end is all that matters. However, on the road to romance, you need to know some of the secrets that will enable you maneuver through the pitfalls. It all starts with recognizing that you need someone to love. This will happen when you are of age and, puberty is the age where you start to realize the importance of the boy and girl sexes. You might not understand fully the meaning of true companionship but, this is definitely the beginning. It is pretty exciting how things become clearer as you grow up. When you are through with high school, you tend to feel on top of things and, you will be very surprised to realize that when it comes to romance, we never know it all. This is the age where most people get into relationships. To say that people do not find real love at this age will be unfair. There are many high school sweet hearts that have made successful and long lasting marriages.

On the road to romance, you are bound to meet very many princes who will turn into ugly frogs. Do not feel like you are from Mars when this happens; it is perfectly on course while on the road to romance. However, as time passes on, many singles never get to meet the kind of people they were hoping for. When girls clock onto 30, chances, are, they have had enough experiences and still not found what they are looking for. As a girl or man, age is really just a number. We are not all wired the same. Some people are given the gift to endure through certain hurtful relationships while others are given patience to wait for what they want. On the road to romance, we really need patience, if we want to get our desired partners. However, we need to match patience with the right attitude and mindset. Many of us miss out on chances of romance due to certain factors. It is vital for you to really understand what you want in a relationship. Do not seek for a perfect partner because if you are not perfect, chances are that people are just like you.

The road to romance sometimes will not require our effort. You need to surrender to fate and destiny. Open your heart and mind to love and it will come to you. This sounds so easy. The truth is thinking too much is not going to give you a solution on romance. However, be objective and learn to recognize potential partners. If you feel that the process or the road needs to be shortened, you can employ the use of matchmakers. Matchmakers are good vehicles that will shorten the distance on the road to finding love. Above all, keep a positive attitude and know that you are good enough to give and receive love. Without a shadow of doubt, you will meet somebody who you will cherish for the rest of your life.



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